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A heart-load for each of us

by | Jun 26, 2015 | 3 comments

We dog people are a special kind.  We sign up for heartache. We offer our hands willingly to be bound by the monumental cycle of love and loss. We do it again, again, again.

The grief we feel when our dogs’ lives come to a much-too-soon close is as real as any grief, because the love we feel for them is as real as any love.

I am in love with Ocean
lifting her thousands of white hats
in the chop of the storm,
or lying smooth and blue, the
loveliest bed in the world.
In the personal life, there is

always grief more than enough,
a heart load for each of us
on the dusty road. I suppose
there is a reason for this, so I will be
patient, acquiescent. But I will live
nowhere except here, by Ocean, trusting
equally in all blast and welcome
of her sorrowless, salt self.

~Mary Oliver

Kelso, my love, my wisest teacher, my brightest light.  I will miss you every day until we meet again.

3 Comments

  1. Nina

    My heart is aching for your loss …hugs for you my friend …

    Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

    From:”The Cognitive Canine” Date:Fri, Jun 26, 2015 at 1:01 PM Subject:[New post] A heart-load for each of us

    cogdogtrainer posted: “We dog people are a special kind.  We sign up for heartache. We offer our hands willingly to be bound by the monumental cycle of love and loss. We do it again, again, again. The grief we feel when our dogs’ lives come to a much-too-soon close is as rea”

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  2. zoephee

    I am so sorry! <3 ~hugs~

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  3. riverdogfarm

    so sorry for your loss

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